Thankful

 Today is the day after Thanksgiving.  Some people refer to it as Black Friday.  I have never participated in Black Friday and have no desire to start.   I love sleeping in on the day after Thanksgiving and relaxing w/ my family.  This morning, Oliver & I were the first ones to wake up and we watched Forrest Gump together.  I can't think of any place I'd rather be.   

 I am not a shopper, never have been.  If I shop, it's online.  Well except for groceries....  I do that @ the times when everyone else is watching football, at church or in school.  I hate shopping & crowds of strangers.   I like crowds as long as it's controlled by me :)  I like "my people".  Some may think that is controlling, I think it's preferential. 

Our boys and Sophia's children

Yesterday we had a GREAT Thanksgiving!!  My boys had been asking if we could "Please!" have a BIG Thanksgiving @ our house this year...  I would do anything for my boys, especially if it involves lots of cooking.  Knowing that they were desiring a big family gathering, I set out to provide it.  We invited my mom & stepfather, my brother Shawn & his family, my friend Melinda & her children and David's sister, Sophia w/ her family (My brother, Shannon and his family live in China so he couldn't be here.) .  If everyone came, that would make the total 22.  My house is not large and is around 100 years old so it wasn't really designed w/  an open floor plan.   Where was I going to put everyone??? 

Mom said yes, Melinda & Sophia said yes; my brother said, no.  Now the total was around 16.
I checked the weather and were going to have sunshine and temps of around 68.  We're going OUTSIDE!  This would allow room to move around and we could have a fire on the patio when it started cooling off.  David moved the big farm table from the restaurant building and we pulled the church pews out for seating, strung some lights and started cooking!!  Everyone cooked and helped pull it all together.

My mom & Roy cancelled the day before, Roy was sick.  She was bringing desserts so I asked Sophia to bring something for dessert.  Steve (Sophia's husband made a HUGE chocolate cake, fudge and an apple pie!!! Delicious!  Melinda made her awesome potato salad, a ham and (Oliver's favorite thing) a  pickled tray w/ olives.  Oliver ate all of the pickles.  Note to self: find out what kind of pickles those were....
We had so much yummy food!! 
OUR AWESOME MENU:  Turkey & Ham
                                              Green Beans
                                              Dressing & Gravy
                                              Sweet Potato Casserole
                                              Potato Salad
                                              Carrot Souffle'
                                              Spinach Maria
                                              Macaroni & Cheese
                                              Corn, Rolls
                                              Chocolate Cake
                                              Pumpkin Pie
                                              Fudge
                                              Carrot Cake Pops
                                              Strawberry Pizza
                                              Apple Pie


I was so worried about not having enough room for years that I refused to host a holiday party @ our house.  We had such a good time.  There were 9 kids/teens from age 7-21.  They all played Frisbee, kickball, football and sat around the fire.  Even w/o my biological family in attendance it felt like family.  I thank God for the people that He has placed in my life!  Because of the friends & family who were in attendance, we were able to give our boys the big family holiday gathering that they desired.  This was our main goal and it was achieved.  My only regret: (as always) I wish I had taken more pictures.  My niece, Sarah did take a few and was kind enough to share w/ me.  I didn't get any pics of Melinda and her girls, I wish I had....