Thankful

 Today is the day after Thanksgiving.  Some people refer to it as Black Friday.  I have never participated in Black Friday and have no desire to start.   I love sleeping in on the day after Thanksgiving and relaxing w/ my family.  This morning, Oliver & I were the first ones to wake up and we watched Forrest Gump together.  I can't think of any place I'd rather be.   

 I am not a shopper, never have been.  If I shop, it's online.  Well except for groceries....  I do that @ the times when everyone else is watching football, at church or in school.  I hate shopping & crowds of strangers.   I like crowds as long as it's controlled by me :)  I like "my people".  Some may think that is controlling, I think it's preferential. 

Our boys and Sophia's children

Yesterday we had a GREAT Thanksgiving!!  My boys had been asking if we could "Please!" have a BIG Thanksgiving @ our house this year...  I would do anything for my boys, especially if it involves lots of cooking.  Knowing that they were desiring a big family gathering, I set out to provide it.  We invited my mom & stepfather, my brother Shawn & his family, my friend Melinda & her children and David's sister, Sophia w/ her family (My brother, Shannon and his family live in China so he couldn't be here.) .  If everyone came, that would make the total 22.  My house is not large and is around 100 years old so it wasn't really designed w/  an open floor plan.   Where was I going to put everyone??? 

Mom said yes, Melinda & Sophia said yes; my brother said, no.  Now the total was around 16.
I checked the weather and were going to have sunshine and temps of around 68.  We're going OUTSIDE!  This would allow room to move around and we could have a fire on the patio when it started cooling off.  David moved the big farm table from the restaurant building and we pulled the church pews out for seating, strung some lights and started cooking!!  Everyone cooked and helped pull it all together.

My mom & Roy cancelled the day before, Roy was sick.  She was bringing desserts so I asked Sophia to bring something for dessert.  Steve (Sophia's husband made a HUGE chocolate cake, fudge and an apple pie!!! Delicious!  Melinda made her awesome potato salad, a ham and (Oliver's favorite thing) a  pickled tray w/ olives.  Oliver ate all of the pickles.  Note to self: find out what kind of pickles those were....
We had so much yummy food!! 
OUR AWESOME MENU:  Turkey & Ham
                                              Green Beans
                                              Dressing & Gravy
                                              Sweet Potato Casserole
                                              Potato Salad
                                              Carrot Souffle'
                                              Spinach Maria
                                              Macaroni & Cheese
                                              Corn, Rolls
                                              Chocolate Cake
                                              Pumpkin Pie
                                              Fudge
                                              Carrot Cake Pops
                                              Strawberry Pizza
                                              Apple Pie


I was so worried about not having enough room for years that I refused to host a holiday party @ our house.  We had such a good time.  There were 9 kids/teens from age 7-21.  They all played Frisbee, kickball, football and sat around the fire.  Even w/o my biological family in attendance it felt like family.  I thank God for the people that He has placed in my life!  Because of the friends & family who were in attendance, we were able to give our boys the big family holiday gathering that they desired.  This was our main goal and it was achieved.  My only regret: (as always) I wish I had taken more pictures.  My niece, Sarah did take a few and was kind enough to share w/ me.  I didn't get any pics of Melinda and her girls, I wish I had....

Stop and smell the pee pee, umm I mean roses.....

My boys are at 3 different schools this year.  I run from school to school picking up and dropping off in a rush most days.  I am not complaining, I normally don't mind it at all.  And up until football season ended I didn't have to pick Parker up until later in the day because of practice. Also, Parker will be driving in 3 weeks so it's not much of a big deal.

The school's dismissals are staggered so I have just enough time to drive to each school.  I pick Oliver (the youngest) up first, followed by Cooper (middle child) and then Parker (oldest).  Lately, Oliver has been jumping in the car doing the "pee-pee" dance.  I've asked him to PLEASE, use the restroom before the bell rings.  Still every afternoon, the pee-pee dance.....  

A few years ago a friend, who is a RN, gave us a hospital urinal before we left for a trip to Arizona w/ the boys  She laughed as she gave it to me and said, "believe me, you'll need it...".  Well, she was right and we've replaced that one several times now.   As gross as that may sound, it really is a reality when you have boys and travel by car.  We don't talk about it but we've all done it.  This topic recently came up @ a birthday party and it was a hilarious conversation.  Water bottles, coffee mugs, fast food cups....   I referred them to the the medical supply store for their own urinal bottle :) 

Back to my original story.  This past week Oliver, true to form, got into the car and proceeded w/ a screaming pee-pee dance.  I told him to retrieve the urinal that was hidden behind the 2nd row seat. I had decided to start leaving it in the car, just in case.   My instructions were use it and then hold it by the handle until we arrived @ the wooded area just before Cooper's school.  Simple enough.  But no, I turned the corner and the urinal went flying and pee-pee dumped into my floor.   Fortunately, my Rover has rubber floor mats and it wasn't a huge amount of urine (enough to be nasty- regardless).   We pulled over @ the wooded area, dump the Goodwill donation out of it's trash bag and put the floor mat into the bag. 

We continued our usual pick ups and went home to scrub the mats.

When I went out to my car the next morning, I was overwhelmed w/ the smell of urine! I guess it had spilled on the carpet before I pulled over to remove the mat.  At first, I thought "ugh, that Oliver!!" then it occurred to me:  If I had just taken the time to stop and let Oliver use a bathroom, we wouldn't have had this problem! It was due to my rushing and hurrying that made this mess!!! 

From now on I am going to do my best to slow down, give in to Oliver and his little boy bladder and preserve my floors of my vehicle :)    Life is too short to spend so much time rushing around.  An extra 5 minutes will save 30 minutes of scrubbing pee-pee later.

  

Easy Pasta Dinner

At our house, we LOVE pasta!!  The problem is we "love" creamy (fatty) pasta sauces.  Pour a garlic cream sauce on any pasta and we will put it away!!

When I was living in Memphis I worked @ a Cajun restaurant on Beale Street.  I waited tables but I loved to get to work early and hang out in the kitchen w/ the Cajun lady that cooked the meals.  She was awesome and was always willing to share her incredible kitchen knowledge.  I learned so many great recipes but my favorite was a garlic cream sauce. She made a shrimp & andouille pasta that was so good!!   I'll share that later, maybe....

I came across an awesome pasta recipe in this month's (actually December) issue of Real Simple.  It has a great combo - cream & garlic! But it also has English peas and spinach - what every mother wants to get into her children's diet :)  Also, it's not too heavy (like Alfredo).   It is so easy and great for a busy family dinner.

 So I am going to share it here for you to try.  I hope that doesn't  break any rules.... I did alter their original recipe b/c we like to EAT and their recipe wouldn't have fed 2 of us.

Creamy Chicken and Spinach Pasta

serves 4 (maybe)

1# of your favorite pasta (gemelli, penne or fusilli...)
1.5 cups frozen green peas
2 tablespoons unsalted butter
3 cloves garlic, chopped
1.5 cups heavy cream
3 cups of shredded rotisserie chicken
5 ounces baby spinach (about 6 cups)
kosher salt (or sea salt) and black pepper
Grated Parmesan, (for serving)

*Cook the pasta according to the package directions, adding the peas during the last minute of cooking.  Reserve 1/2 cup of the cooking water.  Drain the pasta and peas and reserve the pot.

*Melt the butter in the pasta pot over medium heat.  Add the garlic and cook, stirring, until fragrant, about 30 minutes.

*Add the cream, chicken, spinach and 1/2 teaspoon salt & pepper to the pot and cook until the chicken is warmed through and the spinach in wilted. 2 to 3 minutes.  Add the pasta and peas and toss to combine (add 1/4 cup of the reserved cooking water if the pasta seems dry).  Serve with the Parmesan. 

 I used a basil, garlic & oregano rotisserie chicken and it was great!! 
This was even better on the 2nd night.  Parker didn't eat, so we had leftovers.  Oliver & Cooper ate it too.  Cooper picked out the peas but that's ok.

Hope ya'll will try this one.  I loved it!

Chicken w/ Wild Rice Casserole

Whew!! It's been a busy 2 weeks!!! Soccer is over, trophies are handed out and all-stars have been chosen.  Which means that 3 out of 5 nights we can have family dinner again. We still have football and it looks like we are headed to the playoffs!!  Fort Payne Wildcats are 10 - 0 and have one game left in the regular season.  Good news for the team, bad news for family dinner..... We've been surviving on Grilled cheese and canned soup lately, which beats fast food or ball park hot dogs any day.

 My mom makes a chicken & rice casserole that's a lot like this one and we love it.  This casserole is great for cold winter nights.  Hope you like it!!!


Recipe for Chicken & Wild Rice Casserole
adapted from the blog: The Secret Life of a Chef's Wife.



4 table­spoons butter
1 medium-large onion; chopped
6 stalks cel­ery; chopped
6 car­rots; peeled and chopped
4 (14.5oz.) cans low-sodium chicken broth–or 7 1/2 cups home­made broth
1 (6oz.) box Uncle Ben's Long Grain and Wild Rice (with sea­son­ing packet)
2 1/2 cups whole milk (or equiv­a­lent mix­ture of milk and cream depend­ing on your desired fat content)
1/4 cup butter
1/4 cup all-purpose flour
3 cups cooked, cubed chicken (roast­ing in the oven is perfect!)
salt to taste
pep­per to taste
1/4 cup chopped fresh parsley
1/4 cup sliv­ered almonds
1/2 cup cooked, chopped bacon (optional)
In a large, heavy pot, melt but­ter and add the onions, cel­ery, and car­rots. Saute until slightly soft; 8 min­utes. Add the chicken broth and bring to a boil. Turn heat to a sim­mer and add the con­tents of the box of Uncle Ben’s Wild Rice. Cover and cook 15 minutes.
Mean­while, heat the 1/4 cup but­ter in a small saucepan. When just bub­bling, add the 1/4 cup all pur­pose flour. Whisk together and cook over medium heat, con­tin­u­ing to whisk, for 3–5 min­utes. Don’t let this roux get overly brown, just slightly golden. Set aside.
When soup is done sim­mer­ing, add the milk or milk and cream mix­ture. Cook 10 more min­utes on low until rice has fin­ished cook­ing. Bring back to a low boil and add the roux (butter/flour mix­ture) and cook, stir­ring until soup thick­ens. Add cooked, cubed chicken. Add salt and pep­per to taste. Serve with fresh pars­ley and sliv­ered almonds sprin­kled on top. And another hold-over from my orig­i­nal recipe: toss a lit­tle cooked, chopped bacon on the top as well!
**Add other veg­eta­bles if desired: broc­coli, cau­li­flower, peas, corn.…

Repurposed Buffet

Because we have our booth @Myrtle Jane's, we are always on the look-out for big furniture w/ potential.  This particular buffet was a great bargain ($10.00) w/ a lot of potential! But it needed a lot of work too.  It had water damage on the sides and back.  The inside shelves were warped and falling apart.  The front looked fairly good considering what the rest of it looked like.  AND it was missing 10 knobs/handles.  David took the back off and replaced it and the interior shelves. I think I stared @ this piece of furniture for about 3 weeks. I couldn't bring myself to paint it. Finally,  I realized that I had to paint it b/c it has too much damage to sell "as is".  Next to decide on a color.  I thought white but once it was painted I didn't love it. Then I decided to paint it a light turquoise color, didn't love it either.  I distressed it and let the wood and white show back through the turquoise and then we were getting closer to what I wanted.  But it still needed a brown glaze to make it right. 

I had ordered pulls from Amazon and paid .78 each so that made me happy! I had to drill new holes for the new pulls and plates to cover the existing hole were ordered as well. They cost around $1.15 each.  So now the hardware costs more than the Buffet, but that's okay.

So here is how we found it....

 

 

This photo is of the side after the bubbled veneer was peeled off. The other side looks pretty much the same. Now you see why we had to paint.  This piece was very heavy.  By the end, I LOVED it and actually tried to find a place to fit it into my home.  But no more room and nothing that I am willing to part with right now to make room.   So below is the finished piece placed in the booth.  It stayed for about an hour and sold! It's gone and now I have another big hole in my booth.  But that's a good problem to have and we'll fill it soon w/ something else that has a story.  I often wondered how this piece got sooo much water damage.  I kept thinking about Katrina and all the water damaged furniture that came out, where did all of it go? The Landfill?? Oh I hope some of it got new lives like this one did.  I spent months thinking over this piece. I think David was thinking that I had decided to keep it and was waiting for me to tell him where we were going to make it fit.   It's a great piece of furniture and I hope the person who purchased it will know how special it is. 

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Food- Beer Cheese Soup!

   Many years ago I had a date and we went to the 101st Airborne restaurant in Nashville. It was a neat restaurant out by the Airport.  I was curious to know if it still existed and sadly, it does not.  According to what I read online, it closed in 2006.  Anyway,  I don't remember who the date was but I definitely remember the Beer Cheese Soup!!  Unlike my date, I have thought about that Soup for over 25 years.  I have searched for a recipe that would come close .  I think I have finally found it.  

    My "date" now is my husband, David (unforgettable. larger than life and a real Airborne Soldier).  He has been out of town since Sunday morning and came back today (Wednesday).  The first words out of his mouth were "What's for dinner?".  I should expect this, we've been married for 18 years.  Parker and I tease him that everything revolves around FOOD in David's world.  His Facebook posts are 90% about where he's eating :)  He likes his meals and appreciates the effort that goes into a good meal.     If I wanted to change to mood in my house I would say, "whatever you can find!". Talk about a game changer!  I also know that if I add Key Lime Pie, it makes everything better. Smoke & mirrors.

So back to dinner.....My brain says "Beer Cheese Soup" and my mouth repeats it.  I'm hoping my brain is also taking inventory of what's in the fridge and pantry.   I take a physical inventory and realize that I need more cheese and we'll have Beer Cheese Soup! I grab cheese @ the store when I pick Cooper up from school.   I stop and think about the fact that I have to get Cooper to church (Oliver is sick) @ 5:30, pick Parker up from Football practice @ 6;15 get him to Youth and pick them back up @ 7:00.  I  wonder if I'll have time to pull it all together.  I better start asap is my next thought.  That's one of the great things about this recipe is that it is quick!!

  Note: if you are worried about the word BEER, the alcohol evaporates out of the soup :)

    I found this recipe last year on www.allrecipes.com and it is delicious.

Ingredients:
1 tablespoon margarine                                   
1 (14.5 ounce) can chicken broth
1/2 cup chopped onion                                   
1/2 teaspoon minced garlic                            
2 cups half & half
3 tablespoons cornstarch
1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce                    
2 cups shredded Sharp Cheddar Cheese
1 (12 ounce) can or bottle light beer*

* www.backfortybeer.com  - as local as it gets!

Directions:
1. Melt the butter or margarine in a 4 1/2 quart soup pot over medium heat.  Add the onion, garlic 
    and Worcestershire sauce and stir well.  Add the beer and raise the heat to high and boil for 3
    minutes to evaporate the alcohol.  Add the chicken broth and bring the soup back to a boil.  Lower 
    the heat to medium-low and simmer.

2. Combine the cornstarch with 3 tablespoons water and stir until smooth. Set aside.

3. Add the half & half and shredded cheese to the soup.  Stir constantly until the cheese melts.  Then
    stir in the cornstarch mixture.  Stir constantly until the soup is thick, about 2 minutes.  Serve
    garnished w/ shredded cheese.  Optional: top w/ fresh bacon bits.

We made cornbread in our cast iron corn stick pan. The boys
eat the corn shaped cornbread better than pie shaped :)

My favorite beer. Honesty, the soup is better w/ a cheaper beer than it was with this one but it was what was in our fridge.
 
 

Food- Blueberry Banana Bread

  School mornings, no matter how much preparation I do the night before ,are hectic.  I make lunches, lay clothes out, pack backpacks, get the little boys in the tub and sometimes set up the coffee maker at night.  This leaves breakfast and everyone getting themselves dressed for the morning. 

  I firmly believe that Breakfast is the most important meal of the day.  I try so hard to get breakfast into all the boys before leaving for school.  It's not too much of a problem to get the younger two boys to eat but getting a teenager to stop and eat a good breakfast is such a hassle.  And cold cereal gets old every morning.  So I've tried to come up w/ other things that the boys will eat for breakfast that is as easy as cereal.  Muffins fit in perfectly.  I have been freezing batches and thawing the amount we need for the next morning.  This is a great recipe.  I have been making these for years and they are always delicious.

This recipe is for bread but easily transfers over to muffins w/o any adjustments. 

 My kitchen taste tester! Hopefully he'll be this agreeable in the morning

 

Blueberry Banana Bread

 

2 lg bananas

2/3 cup sugar

2 eggs, beaten

1/3 cup buttermilk ( I have used regular milk too)

1/2 tsp salt

3/4 cup regular uncooked oats (or 3 packets of instant oats)

1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour

2 tsp baking powder

1 tsp baking soda

1/4 cup vegetable oil

3/4 cup fresh blueberries ( I have used frozen)

variations: I have used 1/2 wheat flour and 1/2 regular flour

Mash bananas in a large bowl. Add sugar and next 4 ingredients.  Let stand 5 minutes, until oats soften.  Combine flour, baking powder, and baking soda.  Add to banana mixture alternately with oil, stirring just to incorporate.  Fold in blueberries.  Pour into a greased loaf pan or lined muffin cups.
Bake at 350  for 50 to 55 minutes. 
If you want to freeze, allow to cool completely before placing into a freezer container.  Remover muffins as needed and warm in the microwave before enjoying.    You can also add milled flax seed to the dry ingredients. 
 

I hope your family will enjoy the muffins as much as we do!

 

                                                                      We're also trying waffles and  pancakes for easy breakfast

                                                               Pray that this makes my mornings "friendlier".

 

This recipe adapted from Food For Thought, The Junior League of Birmingham, Alabama